How to Take Control of Your Life » Higher Level Living

I want to help you take control of your life. I want to give you the one powerful question that will help you take control of your life – to have success in whatever it is that you are reaching for.

Why questions?

Well truthfully, I full-on nerd out when it comes to questions!

I have questions that I start and end my day with.
I have a list of questions that I always share with clients
I have a note sections in my phone where I’m continually adding new questions.

And the reason why is… questions trigger the heart of the matter. They help you to gain more clarity, and clarity is power in life.

So what is the one question that will continuously help you feel as though you have more control over your life?

What is my desired outcome?

If you use this question in all situations, you will have so much more clarity in your life. And with clarity comes action! It gives you a focus and stimulates your mind to become laser-focused consciously and subconsciously on that desired outcome.

Examples:

The next time you are in a conversation with someone, take a moment to think to yourself, “What is my desired outcome in this conversation?” Is it to build a connection? Is it to offer sympathy? Is to influence? Is it to educate? When you have the desired outcome of that conversation in mind, it helps you stay focused and reach the outcome that you actually want.

Another example: Let’s say you are in a fight or going through a conflict with someone at work, ask yourself, “What is my desired outcome here?” Is it to resolve the conflict? Is it to come up with new creative solutions? Is it to build a new rapport with your coworkers? But again, give yourself a desired outcome.

When you give yourself an outcome, you give yourself clarity, and clarity helps you to be more intentional with your actions, both consciously and subconsciously. This is the first step to manifest things in your life. Once you decide what you want your outcome to be, it’s time to go deeper, ask yourself, “What is the desired outcome of my life?” This question shifts you into living with the end in mind. The idea is for you to live with more intention and more purpose. This allows you to reverse engineer your life.

Guide Your Thoughts, Guide Your Actions

Once you have those steps down, you have more guidance to align your actions with what you really want. So make it a habit to ask yourself, over and over again, whatever it might be. There is no situation too small or too large. Keep asking yourself, “What is my desired outcome?” And when you decide just exactly what that outcome is, that’s when you can prepare for those synchronicities. That’s when you can start to notice signs or new opportunities. That’s when things seem to fall into your path. It’s not by coincidence. It’s because your brain is locked on that outcome. Taking control of your life is pretty powerful, so try this out!

If You Don’t Know Your Desired Outcome

If you are seriously struggling with how to answer the question, “What is my desired outcome?,” then I want to chat with you! More often than not, we get frustrated trying to ask ourselves these deep inner questions. You are not alone in feeling that frustration. I help clients work through these feelings for more clarity all the time. Schedule a completely pressure free, virtual coffee (tea, or tequila – whatever suits your fancy) chat with me and let’s talk about where you struggle to understand your desired outcome. I look forward to learning more about you!

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