We all go through phases in life where we start to question just about everything in life.
From the outside looking in everything might seem great…. happy & successful even.
But internally you’re feeling completely lost and stuck.
You’re struggling with who you are, what you want, what you’re really made for.
Maybe you’re going through some major life transitions,
facing loss, insecurities, a breakup, or just feeling disconnected from yourself….
First, I want to reassure you that you are not alone! This is a transitional time many of us go through. It can be frustratingly confusing, lonely, and messy.
But… if you lean into it… it can be WILDLY TRANSFORMATIVE.
I like to think of it as a Wake Up Call in Life.
It’s a time when you get the chance to wake up to your true authentic self. When you do this you learn what it means to feel happy, fulfilled, fully alive, and at peace with you who are. And even more so it. could also potentially wake you up to true inner calling. This is something so many of us are searching for after all isn’t it?! Finding the answer to that big question of “What is my Purpose”
If you want to clearly see where you are headed next in life, get more clarity on what’s really possible for you… you have to start with an honest assessment of where you are now.
In short – You have to know who you are so you can figure out where you’re headed.
This is a process that all starts by allowing yourself to actually slow down and ask the deep questions. Good deep questions are at the heart of growth, clarity, and awareness.
A good question can trigger the heart of a matter. It gives you insight, perspective, and ideas.
Here are 6 of the most transformative questions I’ve used in working with clients. If you actually take the time to reflect on these I promise you will find some answers to what you are searching for.
And if you are still feeling overwhelmed or stuck once you reflect on these, be sure to check out the special gift I have for you at the end 🙂
- What do you value most in life?
- What do you like to learn about?
- What have you always wished you could do, but haven’t because you don’t have the time or money?
- What advice would you give you your younger self?
- What is the ideal trajectory of your life?
- What are you doing when you feel the most fulfilled?
In my years of coaching, researching, and from the roller coaster of experiences in my own life… I’ve come to learn we all have the answers within us. The problem is we’re usually either too stubborn to slow down and actually listen, or we’re afraid to get deep and find the answers.
I know I know… not exactly what you want to hear right now but do me a favor… allow yourself to accept it as truth. Then shift your perspective. Allow yourself to view this as a good thing! Find some peace and empowerment in the fact that you’ll get through this confusing phase of your life.
That you already have everything it takes to have, be, and do all you want in this life.
Next know it’s not your fault you’re feeling stuck where you are!
We’ve all been programmed to live a certain way and this has led us to where we are today.
But now that you’re aware of it, it’s time to do something about it!
You have two choices….
1. Stay where you are feeling confused, stuck in fear, paralyzed to action.
2. Get deep and ask the tough questions that could lead to transformative change in your life.
And if you need help figuring out what the right questions are or want some supportive guidance as you reflect on the answers for action please know I’m always here ready and willing to be your guide.
That’s exactly what I offer you as a coach. I’m here to help you tap into the personal power you have over your own life, gain more clarity, and reach for your true potential so you can find true happiness, peace, and fulfillment in your life ———->>>>
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